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		<title>What’s Your Word of the Year?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Nov 2025 13:13:47 +0000</pubDate>
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									<p>As much of the world celebrates Christmas and prepares to welcome the New Year, let’s take a moment to reflect and ask ourselves: What would you wish for yourself in the coming year?</p><p>Even if you count your years from Ramadan to Ramadan, which is fast approaching, it’s still a good time to pause and think: What do I want for myself?</p><p>So, as we step into this new chapter, I invite you to choose your Word of the Year.<br />A single word that will inspire you, guide you, and keep you focused throughout the days of joy and sadness, challenges and opportunities.</p><p>Would you wish for:</p><p>Peace: A sense of calm and contentment in your heart.<br />Success: Growth in your personal or professional life.<br />Happiness: Moments of pure joy and gratitude.<br />Gratitude: Appreciating the blessings you already have.<br />Growth: Becoming the best version of yourself.</p><p>Or any other word: like wisdom, patience, connection, courage, confidence, belief, Ameen ect.</p><p>Each of us has our own unique wish, something our hearts truly long for. Just close your eyes and feel it. The right word often pops into your mind when you take a moment to reflect on what you need most in your life right now. Trust your women’s intuition!</p><p>Remember, we are often searching for a state of being—something we feel is missing in our lives. The good news is, we can create those states within ourselves.</p><p>So a TASK FOR YOU ALL:</p><p>Close your eyes, breathe deeply, and ask yourself:</p><p>1. What am I missing?<br />2. What do I want to focus on?<br />3. What feeling do I want to carry with me every day?</p><p>Let that word come to you naturally. It might surprise you, but it will feel right.</p><p>Take your time—and when it comes to you, hold onto it. That’s your guide for the year ahead. That’s your word!</p><p>With love and duas,❤️<br />Maryam</p>								</div>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Nov 2025 13:13:46 +0000</pubDate>
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									<p>Today about STOMACH or the real story about how our emotions and feelings are connected with a body.</p><p>This is not my story, it was told by colleague.<br />One lady wrote asking about stomach pain. She had never had stomach issues before—no cramping, no food poisoning, no other acute symptoms—just pain, discomfort, and a feeling as if her stomach was full.</p><p>Full of emotions, no doubt. To question: What did you eat today? The answer was: The usual, nothing unusual or hard to digest.</p><p>After a few more questions, like how she ate (whether she enjoyed the meal because she was hungry or just ate to “get it done”), it became clear that she hadn’t eaten—she had stuffed herself without even chewing properly.</p><p>You might think it’s no wonder her stomach reacted.</p><p>Question:<br />-Why did you eat like that? What were you thinking about all day?<br />Answer: -A family gathering is coming up soon, and for the past few days, I’ve been unable to mentally prepare myself. Just thinking about having to sit at the table with two-faced people and eat my aunt’s greasy food that I can’t stand makes me feel sick… (this is almost an exact quote).</p><p>And there it was—BINGO! Suddenly, it all became clear to her. She messaged saying she felt an immense sense of relief in her stomach and even clarity in her mind.<br />Few more things was discussed also.</p><p>In this case, I wanted to show how simple yet deeply interconnected a person’s emotional state can be with their physical symptoms.</p><p>This woman was already “attending” the family gathering in her mind, already “digesting” the food she found unappealing (while her stomach struggled with the actual food she ate), and was overwhelmed by negative emotions, unable to find a valid excuse to skip the event.</p><p>Illness or pain, however, is always a socially acceptable excuse—no one judges you for it. Instead, people nod sympathetically, wish you well, and you even get extra attention…</p><p>So, I encourage you to express your emotions as you feel them, rather than hiding behind them.</p><p>Simply acknowledge to yourself: This is how it is. This is how I feel. Don’t force yourself to go somewhere, interact with someone, or look for an escape in the form of illness.</p><p>And if you do end up going somewhere you rather accept others as they are, so they won’t affect you.</p><p>You know, example your auntie lovingly adds extra fat to dishes for her dear guests (after all, that’s her kitchen, her understanding of cooking and quality). If you don’t want to eat it, nothing stops you from bringing your own food to the celebration, sharing it with others, and giving your aunt less work to do.</p><p>If she insists on piling her layered, greasy dishes onto your plate, let her (often, the joy is in serving others). You don’t have to eat everything, and in the lively atmosphere, the plate’s contents can always mysteriously “disappear.”</p><p>Don’t like the company but still want to greet your aunt?<br />Change the timing of your visit—drop by briefly before the celebration or on another agreed-upon day. Offer your apologies without explanations (it’s your life, and things happen in it)… and do so without guilt (because guilt, “eats your stomach”).</p><p>You can’t choose your relatives, parents, in-laws ect. but you can choose your timing, attitude, and emotions.</p><p>R.E.M.E.M.B.E.R: There’s always a solution. Even saying no or setting boundaries is a valid option.</p><p>Wishing you the ability to recognise your feelings and emotions, to learn more about your body, and to remember that you always have choices. ❤️</p>								</div>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Nov 2025 13:13:45 +0000</pubDate>
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									<p>Today about PANIC ATTACKS.</p><p>I believe each person should know symptoms and differences between panic attacks and anxiety and how to help yourself or other people who experiencing panic attack.</p><p>Many people battle daily: at home, at work, in their minds, with themselves, with the projections of injustice in life, with their fears, and so on. If this “state of war,” or more accurately, aggression directed at something or someone, persists and a person eventually becomes a hostage to it, a panic attack (PA) may occur.</p><p>It’s a rather frightening experience (for the person going through it) but not life-threatening. ‼️</p><p>However, it is essential to distinguish it from other conditions with similar symptoms (e.g., a heart attack).</p><p>I will share how to recognize and manage PA.</p><p>A calm mind in stressful situations is especially important‼️</p><p>HOW TO RECOGNIZE A PANIC ATTACK?</p><p>External indicators (these can range from very mild to acute):</p><p>sweating, flushing, trembling hands, hot/cold waves, fluctuating pulse, fear, chest pain (not spreading to the back, arms, jaw, or stomach), shortness of breath, the urge to cry, rapid speech, or broken conversation.</p><p>Accompanying thoughts:<br />• “I’m dying.”<br />• “I’m losing my mind.”<br />• “I don’t want to die.”<br />• “Is this real, or am I dreaming?”<br />• “It feels like my heart will stop or is beating out of control!”<br />• “I’m going to vomit.”<br />• “Something terrible is about to happen; I can feel it!”</p><p>WHAT TO DO?</p><p>If this is the first time and you’re struggling to understand what is happening—call for help, reach out to loved ones.</p><p>If it’s not the first time and you recognize it, follow these steps:</p><p>❤️Breathe! You need oxygen to activate the neocortex in the brain (responsible for sensory/spatial/language perception).</p><p>Simply take 10 deep breaths in and out.</p><p>• When oxygen is low, you may experience a “noise” in your ears, a sense of faintness, increased heart rate, cold limbs, shortness of breath, dizziness, etc. But unlike life-threatening conditions, consciousness is not lost.</p><p>❤️Move physically!</p><p>• Jump in place while clapping rhythmically.<br />• Do a few squats.<br />• Clap your hands or gently rub your ears up and down.<br />• Take a few steps forward and back (with someone’s supervision if necessary).<br />• At the very least, march in place calmly for at least 2 minutes.<br />• Monitor your condition (if it’s the first time and you’re unsure it’s PA, don’t overexert yourself).</p><p>❤️Do not lower your eyes!<br />• It’s crucial to find a focal point on the horizon or look upward. Lowering your eyes subconsciously activates emotional responses, which are already heightened during PA.</p><p>❤️Repeat affirmations, even if it’s hard.<br />• Say phrases like:<br />• “I will get through this.”<br />• “Everything passes, and this will too.”<br />• “This is temporary.”<br />• “I’m doing great.”<br />• Do not deny your emotions. Acknowledge them:<br />• “I’m very scared right now, but I can handle this.”<br />• “This feels terrible, but I allow myself to leave this state.”</p><p>Also you can repeat Alhamdulilah, Astaghfirullah, Allahu Akbar. ❤️</p><p>Even if these phrases seem meaningless at that moment, your subconscious will start working.</p><p>❤️Speak out loud—release the panic! If necessary, scream it out. While others might find it alarming, you will feel relief.</p><p>❤️Distract your thoughts.<br />• Try to remember tasks you need to complete, calls to make, or errands to run. During PA, this redirects the brain’s focus.<br />• If you’re supporting someone experiencing PA, ask simple daily questions:<br />• “What did you do today?”<br />• “Who do you need to call?”</p><p>AND FINALLY…</p><p>Today’s realities force everyone to confront their own heroism/weakness/conscience. For each person, this is their own “battle”:<br />• Some silently rejoice (“not in my backyard”).<br />• Others just live their lives.<br />• Some feel aggression toward one side and become part of it.<br />• Some stay on the sidelines and gossip.<br />• Others pray quietly for peace in the world.<br />• Some dedicate all possible efforts and resources to help tangibly.<br />• Others flee/hide/save their children’s lives.<br />• Some stand and fight, facing the enemy with their chest.</p><p>This is everyone’s personal truth and understanding of how to act in any given situation, and each one has their own truth. But truth turns into war when “one’s truth becomes obligatory for the other side.”</p><p>So, I invite everyone to remain human in all respects. Help, but don’t become another aggressor—neither toward others nor yourself.</p><p>Wishing peace and harmony in the world and calmness in your hearts!</p><p>Have a blessed Friday . ❤️</p>								</div>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Nov 2025 13:13:44 +0000</pubDate>
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									<p>As someone with a medical degree and experience in holistic consultation, I often receive questions about physical health, vaccines, and medication.</p><p>The allopathic healthcare system follows standardised treatment protocols. This means that medications and treatments are often prescribed based on general guidelines rather than being tailored to each individual. As a result, many people with the same illness are treated similarly, with a focus on symptoms or disease progression instead of the person as a whole.</p><p>Medical staff is taught to “first, do no harm.” This means they must carefully weigh the potential benefits and risks of any treatment. Ideally, healthcare should take a holistic approach, considering factors like lifestyle, habits, diet, work-rest balance, all human being bodies health and even alternative methods.</p><p>Unfortunately, due to systemic limitations and personal choices, many doctors follow the system’s guidelines strictly, and holistic care is rare.</p><p>Every person is unique. Some trust blindly medications and vaccines. So for these type people even a placebo works well.<br />Personally, I believe focusing only on one symptom or body part is not enough to achieve true health. Covering symptoms is not the same as curing the root cause.</p><p>Pain or illness is often a signal that there are imbalances in one or more areas of the body or multiple our bodies. I always say that just as we can’t clean our teeth once a year and expect them to stay healthy, we can’t ignore our all bodies health. A person is not just a physical being—they are much more complex.</p><p>So educate yourself about your all bodies.</p><p>No one is more close to your body/ies than you and Allah SWT.</p><p>It is essential to learn more about yourself and explore natural ways to strengthen your health and immunity. This should be a daily effort, not something we only think about when we are unwell.</p><p>Remember, synthetic medications often have more side effects compared to natural remedies. I am not against all medication when necessary, but I believe it’s important to understand all aspects of the human bodies and prioritise natural approaches when possible.</p><p>Vaccines are another important area where you must weigh the potential benefits against the possible risks.<br />I personally do not support the current vaccination schedules.</p><p>So before vaccinating yourself or your child, take time to research:</p><p>• The disease, pay attention to diseases prevalence &#8211; epidemiology.<br />• Its causes (etiology), complications and cure possibilities.<br />• How all human bodies works.<br />• The specific vaccine you are considering. How much trials vaccine passed, ingredients, potential risks and side effects.</p><p>The benefits of the vaccine should clearly outweigh any potential harm and benefit a person. Pay attention to your surroundings and your/ kids lifestyle, wellbeing before taking any decision.</p><p>Deciding about vaccines for children is especially complex, and the responsibility lies with the parents ONLY.</p><p>That’s why it’s so important to educate yourself, be informed about potential harm and make decisions carefully.</p><p>In the UK, GPs often treat one symptom or one body part at a time. This fragmented approach benefits the healthcare system but doesn’t always serve the patient’s best interests.</p><p>So this Sunday, at 11 am, I will be holding class for a nnew sisters to discuss more about all our bodies, how many of them we are having and holistic health. Inshallah, it will help you to know yourself and understand yourself better. If you have registered, don’t miss it!</p><p>Wishing you all wisdom, health, and well-being. ❤️</p>								</div>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Nov 2025 13:13:43 +0000</pubDate>
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									<p>ENERGY. ⚡️</p><p>And no, it’s not about electricity at home or appliances. 😊</p><p>How often do you feel drained or lacking energy?</p><p>A lack of energy can indicate:<br />❕ A deficiency in specific minerals or vitamins.<br />❕ Poor-quality or insufficient sleep.<br />❕ Restless thoughts and unresolved decisions.<br />❕ Imbalanced physical activity (either too much or too little).<br />❕ An unsuitable diet.<br />❕ Psychological stress or burnout.<br />❕ A lack of motivation.</p><p>But most importantly, it means you’re not living in alignment with your FEMININE ENERGY ‼️</p><p>In our Sunday classes, we will delve deeper into understanding feminine energy and other related topics.</p><p>If you recognize yourself in any of these points:</p><p>PAUSE. YOU NEED A RESET‼️</p><p>No new plug will recharge an old battery for long. No vitamins, good sleep, or going for a walk will help you in the long term, though they are beneficial.</p><p>You need a fresh solution, a new perspective, and meaningful change‼️</p><p>I’m happy for those sisters who registered for the new self-development and parenting class. ❤️For those who couldn’t attend today, please join us 11:00 AM ( UK) next Sunday. I’m looking forward to seeing you all!</p><p>I wish you health, vibrancy, happiness, and lots of energy!</p><p>Salam Alaikum ❤️</p>								</div>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Nov 2025 13:13:41 +0000</pubDate>
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									<p>For example, when they aren’t invited to a birthday party, or one sibling is invited while another is not.</p><p>When this happens, children often feel sad and upset, depending on their age and sensitivity.</p><p>So first acknowledge their emotions.<br />Instead of denying your child’s feelings or trying to cheer them up with distractions, simply validate how they feel. Say something like:<br />“I can see that you’re feeling really sad right now. It’s ok to feel sad.”</p><p>Allow them to process their emotions.<br />Once their emotions are acknowledged, children can begin to understand and process them.</p><p>REMEMBER‼️<br />We usually don’t want them to dwell on negative emotions, but we are here to help them recognise, name, and allow them to feel their emotions before moving forward.</p><p>Pay attention to your feelings.<br />How do you feel about the situation? Are you irritated, angry, or upset? It’s important to integrate your own emotions first before talking to your child. If you escalate by venting to your husband or your mom, your child will sense this and feel even worse.<br />Even if you not escalate, but will have negative thoughts and feelings about situation it works in the same way.</p><p>Discuss the situation calmly.<br />Here’s an example from our family:</p><p>When my daughter ( 6) wasn’t invited to a birthday party, even though her older brother was, we talked about it like this:</p><p>“You know, everyone gets to decide who they want to invite. That’s their choice, and they felt this was the right decision for them. It’s their wish, and they had their reasons, which we may never fully know. But this doesn’t say anything about you. It’s their decision and their birthday.<br />When it’s your birthday, you’ll also decide who you want to invite. There might be a child who wants to come, but you might not invite them. And that’s okay—you can’t invite everyone.</p><p>This helps child to understand that:<br />1. Other people’s decisions are not about them. It doesn’t mean they’re bad or rejected.<br />2. They, too, have the right to make choices.<br />3. Friendships can vary, and that’s normal.</p><p>By not dramatising the situation but showing understanding, the child learns important lessons:<br />1. “My feelings are valid, but they don’t make me powerless.”<br />2. “I can accept others’ decisions calmly because they don’t define my worth.”<br />3. “Life is full of choices, and I also have the power to choose.”</p><p>So, the next time your child faces disappointment, let them feel their emotions first. Acknowledge them. Once they feel understood and have processed their emotions, you can move on to discussing the situation.</p><p>In situations like these, we also need to remind ourselves that parenting can feel overwhelming, especially when navigating our children’s emotional well-being and their social connections.<br />But as mothers, we are doing our best.<br />Remember, Allah (SWT) sees your efforts, your patience, and your love. May He reward you for your dedication to your families and bless you with ease in your parenting journey.</p><p>Have a blessed Friday!<br />Maryam</p>								</div>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Nov 2025 15:10:23 +0000</pubDate>
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									<p>There’s a strange pressure that comes with growing up—this silent expectation that you should have everything figured out by a certain age. Your plans, your future, your identity, your “thing”. And if you don’t, it feels like you’re falling behind. I used to think everyone else had some secret rulebook that I somehow missed. The more I spoke to people, especially young people, the more I realised the truth: none of us really has it all worked out. We’re all improvising, learning on the go, pretending we’re confident while secretly hoping we’re making the right choices.</p><p>But learning to be comfortable with not having all the answers? That’s been a journey in itself.</p><p>There was a day not too long ago when I sat in front of my laptop, trying to plan something important for school. The cursor blinked at me like it was judging me for not knowing what to type next. I remember thinking, “Why don’t I know what I’m doing? Shouldn’t I have figured this out by now?” That moment of frustration spiralled so quickly into self-doubt, it was almost funny in hindsight. Eventually, I closed the laptop, made a cup of tea, and let myself admit something simple: I don’t know this yet. And that’s okay.</p><p>Somehow, giving myself that permission opened up space for calm. I wasn’t meant to know everything instantly. I was meant to learn.</p><p>And it’s not just big life things. Sometimes it’s the everyday stuff—like being asked a question in a group chat and having absolutely no idea how to answer, or being in a conversation where everyone seems to understand a topic and you’re just nodding along like you’re part of the Wi-Fi connection. I used to feel embarrassed in those moments. Now, I’ve started practising a new response: honesty.</p><p>One time, during a community project, someone asked me a question about a process we were planning to implement. Instead of panicking, I simply said, “I’m not sure yet, but I’ll find out.” The world didn’t end. No one gasped dramatically. There were no raised eyebrows. In fact, the person smiled and said, “Same here—I’m figuring it out too.”</p><p>That one exchange softened something inside me. It reminded me that uncertainty isn’t a flaw; it’s a shared human experience.</p><p>The more I meet people—young, old, confident, shy, successful, starting out—the more I see how universal uncertainty really is. Behind every calm face is someone who has questioned themselves. Behind every confident moment is someone who wasn’t sure at first. Behind every decision is guesswork mixed with faith.</p><p>And there’s something oddly comforting about that. We don’t have to pretend to know everything. We don’t have to rush. We don’t have to hold ourselves to impossible standards. Life becomes gentler when we let ourselves learn as we go, instead of forcing ourselves to be experts from the start.</p><p>Some of the most beautiful paths in my own life came from moments where I admitted, “I’m not sure, but I’m willing to try.” That willingness is often more powerful than certainty. It makes space for growth, curiosity, and even joy in the mystery of things. It’s what turns confusion into discovery.</p><p>So if you’re reading this and feeling overwhelmed because you don’t know what’s next—whether it’s your future, your friendships, your degree, your purpose, or even just tomorrow—breathe. You’re not supposed to have it all figured out. You’re allowed to explore, question, pause, and learn slowly. You’re allowed to change your mind. You’re allowed to ask for help. You’re allowed to grow at your own pace.</p><p>Being okay with not knowing it all isn’t about giving up. It’s about trusting that you’ll learn what you need at the right time, in the right way, through the right experiences. And sometimes, the things you discover along the way are far more meaningful than the answers you thought you were searching for.</p><p>We’re all learning. We’re all finding our path. And you’re doing better than you think.</p>								</div>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 30 Jan 2025 16:19:48 +0000</pubDate>
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									<p>As I take a holistic approach to understanding diseases, I’d like to share some insights about laboratory tests with you all.</p><p>I often hear from people:<br />“My hair is falling out, I’m gaining weight, I have no energy, I feel bloated, I have pain, insomnia… What should I do?” 🤷‍♀️<br />My answer is: “You need to check your test results.”<br />And then I often hear: “I did, everything is within the normal range.”<br />Has this ever happened to you?</p><p>💡 The issue lies in the standard approach, which is very black-and-white: healthy vs sick. But classifying people as either “healthy” or “sick” based solely on lab results is very relative. It’s not as if one day you’re completely healthy and the next you’re suddenly ill. Many health issues develop gradually over time.</p><p>What is a “normal” laboratory range?<br />It’s the range that includes 95% of relatively healthy individuals. However, this is just a statistical average and not an indicator of true health. 📊</p><p>Functional evaluation relies on much narrower ranges that correlate with actual health outcomes. By monitoring how a person moves toward these optimal ranges, we aim not just for “normal” but for excellent health indicators. ✨</p><p>Functional analysis isn’t only a way to feel better but also a way to prevent diseases.</p><p>So, “normal” is almost never “optimal.”</p><p>The important thing is that we can begin intervention early—whether through nutritional support, organ system support, or further testing recommendations.</p><p>For those attending Sunday classes, I will teach you how to understand your body’s physiology and read your own blood test results. That way, you can take charge of your health in a practical way.</p><p>Wishing you all strong health and happiness. ❤️🤲🏻</p>								</div>
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		<title>SPOUSES AND “UNSUCCESSFUL” RELATIONSHIPS FROM A DIFFERENT PERSPECTIVE</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Maryam]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Jan 2025 15:50:52 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[SPOUSES AND “UNSUCCESSFUL” RELATIONSHIPS FROM A DIFFERENT PERSPECTIVE We are all social beings, and sometimes it can be challenging to [&#8230;]]]></description>
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									<p>We are all social beings, and sometimes it can be challenging to understand each other in relationships.<br />Let me warn you—this message might not be easy to digest, especially if you haven’t yet started walking the path of self-awareness. But self-awareness allows you to look at your life with a deeper and broader perspective, understanding that what happens in your life often occurs with your own permission.</p><p>ALL RELATIONSHIPS ARE NOT COINCIDENTAL. They are not random; they were determined even before you were born. You agreed on who would enter your life, what role they would play, and how they would behave. Why? To teach you something about yourself, help you grow, and turn you toward self-awareness.</p><p>In other words, RELATIONSHIPS WITH OTHERS REFLECT YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH YOURSELF.</p><p>We live in a time where most marriages are not arranged, and we say “yes” of our own free will. If, one day, you feel like you’re with the “wrong” person, it likely wasn’t a sudden realisation. Deep down, it was clear from the beginning. However, fears, expectations, or personal gains may have blinded us. Or perhaps, at the time, we simply didn’t know ourselves yet. We may not have experienced unconditional love and self-worth in childhood, didn’t see it reflected in others, or didn’t know how to express our needs and teach others how to love us.</p><p>SO IT’S TIME TO LEARN.</p><p>We enter relationships by choice, and we remain, grow, or stagnate in them by that same free will.</p><p>What do “unsuccessful” relationships teach us?</p><p>“FAILURE” SPOUSE: They show you how much you’re carrying on your own shoulders—distrusting others, undervaluing their capabilities, refusing to rest, and not allowing others to care for you. These often stem from inherited patterns passed down from hard-working mothers or grandmothers.</p><p>“STINGY” SPOUSE: They reflect how much you undervalue yourself, often sacrificing your own needs.</p><p>“NARCISSISTIC” SPOUSE: They teach you that YOU are the most important person in YOUR life. Your needs should come first.</p><p>“WOMANISER” SPOUSE: They reveal that you are still comparing yourself to others and competing with something unresolved within you.</p><p>“RUDE” SPOUSE: They highlight how deeply you lack self-respect.</p><p>“SELFISH” SPOUSE: They show how little you love yourself and how often you fail to make yourself a priority.</p><p>“ABUSIVE” SPOUSE: They bring attention to how much you pressure, control, and punish yourself. They also reveal how you ignored early warning signs and still chose to proceed.</p><p>“ADDICTED” SPOUSE: They uncover a lack of clarity and self-awareness in your life. Living with someone who is “intoxicated” creates a fog of fears, passivity, and helplessness—where life lacks clarity and freedom.</p><p>This message is not easy to accept, as it holds much between the lines. Relationships are complex and deeply personal, especially when they involve pain, resistance, and the need to turn inside to take responsibility for your choices.</p><p>So, as adults, instead of focusing on your spouse, turn to yourself first. Ask yourself: How did I attract this person? Remember, we often mirror each other. And while people do change over time, it is only because they choose to—not because you want them to.</p><p>Never stay in a toxic relationship without taking action. Reflect, understand, and work toward growth—both for yourself and for your relationship.</p><p>Mistakes and challenges are important steps toward self-reflection and self-awareness.</p><p>Wishing you all wisdom, awareness, growth and fulfilling relationships. ❤️</p>								</div>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Jan 2025 15:39:51 +0000</pubDate>
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									<p>Without thousands of these tiny kinesin proteins with their two “feet,” tirelessly taking small steps at 0.5 to 3 micrometers per second, life as we know it wouldn’t be possible.</p>								</div>
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									<p>If you ever forget to value and take care of yourself, remember KINESIN.<br />Thank Allah SWT for all the opportunities to better know yourself, understand others, and explore this world. 🤲🏻</p><p>You are a masterpiece of design, created with incredible precision and purpose. Just like kinesin tirelessly carries out its tasks in your cells, your body, mind, emotions, and soul are all working together in perfect harmony to support you.</p><p>You are perfectly designed, from the tiniest molecular level to the vast complexity of your thoughts and emotions. Every part of you—physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual—exists with intention and beauty.</p><p>Do you know something about KINESIN?</p><p>Maybe you saw a video about kinesin ( will attach it bellow for those who didn’t see yet)?</p><p>Kinesin is a motor protein, a “transporter” within your cells. It diligently carries DOPAMINE molecules and other essential cargo to ensure proper cellular function and emotional balance. Without it, critical molecules like neurotransmitters would struggle to reach their destinations, which could affect your mood and overall well-being.</p><p>Each cell in your body contains many kinesin proteins, tirelessly working EACH DAY AND NIGHT like delivery workers, ensuring everything gets where it needs to go.</p><p>While kinesin works tirelessly for you, certain factors can disrupt its performance:<br />1. Energy Deficiency<br />Kinesin relies on ATP (adenosine triphosphate) as fuel. If your cells lack energy due to mitochondrial dysfunction or other issues, kinesin slows down and becomes less effective.<br />2. Oxidative Stress<br />Free radicals can damage kinesin itself or the microtubule “tracks” it uses to move, impairing its function.<br />3. Inflammation<br />Chronic inflammation alters the cellular environment, interfering with kinesin’s ability to transport molecules efficiently.<br />4. Neuron Damage<br />Neurological diseases like Alzheimer’s and Parkinson’s damage kinesin’s “work zones,” disrupting neurotransmitter transport and other essential functions.<br />5. Microtubule problems<br />Toxins (e.g., alcohol, heavy metals), certain medications, or aging can damage microtubules—the “tracks” kinesin uses for transport—making it harder for kinesin to do its job.<br />6. Genetics<br />Mutations in kinesin-related genes can lead to improper functioning of this protein, affecting cellular transport and overall cell health.<br />7. Nutrition<br />Poor nutrition can weaken your cells by reducing ATP production and overall cellular health, further impairing kinesin’s activity.</p><p>To ensure kinesin works efficiently for you:<br />• Choose a clean and balanced diet rich in nutrients like antioxidants, healthy fats, and proteins. HALAL AND TAYYAB<br />• Avoid toxins such as alcohol, heavy metals, harmful chemicals and additives in the food that damage cells and microtubules.<br />• Reduce inflammation by adopting healthy habits, including regular exercise, reducing processed foods, and maintaining a healthy weight.<br />• Improve energy metabolism by supporting mitochondrial health with good sleep, exercise, and essential nutrients like magnesium and B group vitamins.</p><p>Taking small, consistent steps every day to protect your cellular health will help kinesin continue its vital work, keeping your body and mind functioning at their best.</p><p>Your body deserves the best care as you are the best designed. ❤️<br />Take care of it.</p><p>Have a blessed Friday. ☀️</p>								</div>
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